Category: Singles Spit Swap
I am five foot six, have blue-green eyes, long brown hair and a round face. You should know that I am trans-gendered, which means that while I have the body of a woman, my mind is that of a man. I am working to one day match my body with my mind, but that could take years. If this isnot a problem for you, read on.
I am searching for an open-minded, kind, intelligent, funny and unusual lady to spend time with. I wish to start as friends, and if anything more comes of itt, we can take it frrrrrrrrrom there. I have two beautiful children. My girl, three, and my boy, almost two, are the center of my world. Also, I have their mother. She is my best friend, so if this makes you insecure, perhaps it is not meant to be. I have one cat, Devil McTavish. He is a lazy orange ball of fluff. I also possess an insatiable love for literature, theater, travel, and all things that begin with :You may not believe this, but..." If you are interested, or if you want to be friends and never anything more, please feel free to email me. Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
Hi Trevyn Wolf, like your user name. I am icheleand I am from Sctand. I know somebody like you well simular.
Hi Michelle! Thank you for responding. You say you know someone like me? I am always curious about those who are similar to me. What part of Scotland did you say you werefrom? I hear it is beautiful there. Talk soon.
Trevyn Wof
I am from the West of Scotland outside Glasgow. Yes I do know somebody like you. His name was Keven now it is Yvonne. He stil has the mail voice and the rest of it but dresses and looks like a girl.
How can one have the body of a woman, and the mind of a man?*shakes head* am not in agreement with the whole transgender situation, but best of luck to you at any rate.
Hi Michelle! Yes, male to feale trans-gendered people are more common than their opposite counterparts. I do not know why that is, only that the whole thing is genetic. So, do you like to travel? Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
Hello Jessica! Well I understand how you feel. A lot of my friends think it's pretty wierd, especially the ones who knew me before I began the change. I hope we can be friends, but if not, have a blessed life, and i hope you find what you are looking for. Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
Tear Drop
Studies have found that there is actually a physical change in the brain of folks who experience this phenomenon within themselves. Research shows that a tiny little cortex changes size depending on your gender. If I remember rightly, and I may not because this study was one I read years ago, the boys have the smaller cortex, and the ladies have the bigger one. In transgender people who were examined, the cortex size did not match the body type. This is a very real state, and not just some crazy way of looking at the world. People are genuinely, or at least in some cases genuinely, formed differently.
FM
Well put, Funky Monkey! knew it was genetic, but I did not know why. I love confirmation that I'm not completely crazy. Good luck with your singing endevers. Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
Is it not alsoa question of identity? How the person sees themselves that is, not how they are seen. If so then it is a highly personal thing that ought not to be judged but accepted along with any other aspect they identify with. Trevyn Wolf, whatever the case may be, you are to be admired and respected for not being afraid to show who you are, in a world where not all are accepting of such things. Good luck in your search for love and companionship.
walk in beauty,
Simon
Hello Simon, and thank you for taking the time to read through this topic. I am gratified by your much needed words of encouragement, and I hope you win your award. Keep posting and be happy. Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
Oh lol, I'm not going for an award, that's just a silly status thing that appears above some of our topics. It changes depending on how much we post to the boards. As can be seen by mine, I rarely shut up lol.
Walk in beauty,
Simon
Trevyn
You are far from crazy. I would say those who refuse to accept people for who they are are a great deal crazier than you. I've seen this kind of biggotry a lot actually and it makes me more than cross. Whilst growing up, I watched one of my uncles get it from all sides. He, like you, considers himself to be transgendered. He married and had children because of society forcing him into a socially acceptable role. When he couldn't stand it any more, he divorced, leaving a wife and three children to deal with the loss. This could have been avoided if folks were more accepting of what and who he was as a person. Because they weren't, three children grew up without their dad, and a wife lost her husband.
Be who you are and be proud of it, despite those who are too narrow minded to appreciate you for what you bring to the table as a person.
FM
Very, very wel said FM.
Hello simon! Hmmm. Well that makes sense. Do you go on every board and comment? That's awesome if you do. I don't always know what to say, so often I'll read without comment. Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
Ah, Funky monkey. It is always a joy to hear what you have to say. Well, I'm sorry to hear about your aunt. That can't be easy on either side. To be a person's family, to think you know them completely and then to find they were hiding such a fundamental truth about themselves must be hard. I try to treat my family as gently as I can, try being the operative word. How far is your aunt now in the process of changing? Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
Hello,
I am jess, and I would just like to say hello, and hope we can talk. I think it's really cool that you are trans gendered. I'm not, but I know people who are, and it interests me for some reason
Why thank you, Simon.
Trevyn, Lee is still not very far along the road to change. He still calls himself a he at the moment, but is planning to begin the change as soo as he has organised a date for his operation. I'm incredibly proud of him for being as gutsy as he is for going ahead with this, despite the general outlook of society on such things.
FM
Trevyn, Yeah I do post a fair bit. FM, you are to be commended for your encouragement of your uncle, respet to you for that. My thoughts are with him and I wish him all the very best with his operation and thereafter.
Walk in beauty,
Simon
Hello everyone! It's been a while since I've posted in here.
Simon, hi again.
FM. Ah, I see. Thanks for sharing. Yeah, the change certainly takes a lot to set up. I wish your uncle the best of luck.
Jess, I'm happy to hear from you. Thanks for having an open mind.
Talk soon,
Trevyn Wolf
Hi folks. Well, I'm back again. Once again, I'm looking for a date, but there's a twist. I don't want to talk any more about my condition. I think we've drilled it into the ground quite enough. There have been twenty posts, none of them from girls interested in me. I'm not a freak, and I'm tired of being treated like one. If you want to date me, post here. If you want to be my friend, post here. If you wanna tell me how your uncle just became your aunt, go take it somewhere else because I really don't care. I'm sorry if that sounds mean. You can private message me if you'd like, but I'm just tired of seeing it in a place I created specifically for finding love or very meaningful friendship. Thank you.
Crumbs, Trev. You actually asked questions about the situation I outlined. If you had a problem with it, why not say then? In any case, i'm done. I wish you luck in finding love. No more shall you hear from me on these boards.
Be well.
FM
Fm, if I was yelling at you specifically, I would have used your name. Plus, I would have private messaged you and not done so on the board. That's not appropriate behavior, and you're right. I did ask. What I was refering to was the flock of Private messages based on this board that had nothing to do with the thing's actual subject matter. as for love, I am actually doing quite well on that front. *smiles* thanks for the well wishes. I know I still have this board up, but that's because I don't know how to take it down. Talk soon.
Trevyn Wolf
love happens when you least expect it; simple as that. if you don't wanna read people's helpful replies or what have you, skip over them. people are just trying to share themselves with you a bit, and offer words of encouragement. no need to be so serious about it.
Trev, you may not have mentioned my name specifically, but you did sight a gripe of yours which was specific to me, hence, I took the barb as it was intended. No point in wriggling. You did aim it at me, and I responded in a way I felt appropriate. Glad to hear you're doing well with love. It might be worth PMing a CL and asking them to take this down if you really don't want it up any more.
FM
FM, what am I going to do with you? I wasn't aiming it at you, and no matter what you say, I'm sticking to that. I wasn't even thinking of you when I wrote it.
As for the other one, the "don't be so serious" one, this section of the boards is a personals service. If you make friends, awesome. But when you're getting flooded with off-board messages, you're bound to get annoyed.
Oh well. I think I will see about that community leader. This is reduculess. *smiles*
Signing off,
trevyn Wolf
Trevyn Wolf, you need to wake up and embrace the fact that you, like me, are a freak. Not that it's a bad thing. Obama, I'm sure, was considered a freak. as were Christopher Colombus, Beathoven, Dickenson, and a host of others who broke away from the beaten path. When people see you, their first reactions will be either horror or fascination. Either way, you must let them express this reaction to the fullest before they can move on to what you are trying to say. I know that if I plan to put a singles add up here, I'll be flooded with questions about my weight. I weigh eight hundred and eleven pounds. Right now, you are either laughing or trying to have me banned. either way, my boy, I hope you consider what I've said and take it a little easier on the curious.
Lucy
Lucy,
Af first, I hated you for this, but I guess you have a point. I'm sorry I've been an idiot. In the real world, I have to fight for every bit of respect I get, so maybe that's why I'm on the defensive here. I'll try to do better though. I still really want this board taken down though. Talk soon.
Utt
Hey guys! just so you know, I've posted a question and answer board on the LGbT discussion. You can find it by clicking on Getting to Know you. I hope you like it, and Funky Monkey, I see what you mean. looking at your posts and at mine, I see why you'd think my annoyance was aimed at you. I've mended my mello-dramatic ways and hope you'll talk to me again. Bye for now, everyone. Talk soon.
Utt
Hello,
My name is Tylaher. I'm five-four, hav black hair, and brown eyes. I'm a bi-curious woman. I don't hav any kids but i love kids and maybe one day i'll hav kids of my own. I enjoy: parties, hanging out with friends, occassional drinks, dancing, listening to music, collecting stuffed animals, and babysitting my little cousins. If you're interested, we can be friends and see where it leads to from there. If you're interested, leave me a voice mail on zbp or u can get my email address off my profile.